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fndfyda újdy Ôú; kSri fjkafk tlsfkld i;=gq lrkak neßlu ksid fkdfjhs Wjukdjla ke;slu ksihs

iuyr fidfydka fld;aj, ys;g jÈk fyd| lshuka fldg, ;sfhkjd' ,xldfõ tal ta ;rï m%p,s; ke;s jqK;a iuyr rgj,aj, ta fidfydka fld;aj, ,sh, ;sfhk tla tla lshukaj,ska fyd|u tl f;darkak ;r. mjd ;sfhkjd'
tl úfoaYhl ri,a f–' ,dika lsh, mqoa.,fhlaf.
fidfydka fldf;a ,sh, ;snqKq lshuklg tl jirl m<uq ia:dkh ysñjqKdÆ'
“iyldßhla” ms<sn|j ,shjqKq ydiHh Wmojk ta ,shú,af, ;snqfKa fï jf.a woyila'
m%S;su;a Ôú;hla i|yd ñksiqkag kS;s myla
1' fyd|g Whkak mq¿jka" f.or fodr mú;%j ;nd .kakd" Woõ moõ lrk" /lshdjla we;s ldka;djla isàu jeo.;ah'
2' Tnj iskdfikakg ie,eiaúh yels ldka;djla isàu jeo.;ah'
3' Tng fndre fkdlshk" úYajdih ;eìh yels wjxl .eyekshla isàu jeo.;ah'
4' Tn iu. ld,h .; lsÍug leu;s" ksok ldurfha§ Tng i;=gla Èh yels ldka;djla isàu jeo.;ah'
5' ta ieug jvd b;du;a jeo.;a jkafka ta .eyekqka y;r fokdu tlsfkld oek we¢k fkd.ekSug j.n,d .ekSuh'
ke;fyd;a Tng;a ud fuka fuys tkakg isÿjkq we;'
fïl ydiH ckl l;djla' ta;a y;rjeks j.ka;sh fjk;=reu flfkl=g ysf;kafka ta lreKq yeu tllau fyd| .eyekshl fyj;a iyldßhl ;=< ;sìh hq;= .=Kdx. lsh, fkao@
we;af;kau ta l;dfjka wmsg .kak woyia f.dvlau ;sfhkjd'
ta lreKq y;fru ;sfhk .=Kdx. tl ldka;djla ;=< tl;= jqKd kï we;a;gu ta jf.a flfkla fyd| m%S;su;a újdy Èúhlg fyd|gu iqÿiqlï ;shk fyd|u iyldßhla fõú fkao@
ta;a iuyr ldka;djka Th yeu .=Kdx.hlau m%.=K lr, keye fjkak mq¿jka'
wo lvdlmam,a jk tfyu;a ke;a;ï kSri njg m;afj,d ;sfhk fndfyda újdy Ôú;j,g fya;= jYfhka lshkafka ;ukaf.a ìß|f. wvqmdvq ksid lsh,hs'
iuyr fj,djg f.a fodr md,kh mú;%;djh yßhg lrkafk kE lshkj' iuyr fj,djg kdia;sh jeähs' ú,dis;d jeähs lshkj' iuyr fj,djg lg jeähs" iqyo nj wvqhs" woyia fnod yod .kafka kE lshkjd' ;j;a wjia:djl ,sx.sl;ajhg we;s wdl¾IKh wvqhs lshkj'
fï úÈyg fkdfhl=;a wvqmdvqlï ;snqfKd;a fokafkla w;r m%S;su;a hq. Èúhla mj;ajdf.k hdu álla wudrehs' iuyre úril fjkj' iuyre rKavqlrlr Tfy bkakj' ;j;a iuyre Èlalido fjkak yokj'
fufyu ysf;a mSvdfjka fõokdfjka .;lrk újdy Èúhl f;areu fudllao@
ta;a újdy Èúhlg we;=<;a fjk lsisu flfkla ta újdyh kSri fjhs' lvdlmam,a fjhs lshk n,d‍fmdfrd;a;=fjka fkfï újdy fjkafk' iodldf,gu i;=áka bkak n,df.k' tfyukï wehs újdy Ôú; kSri fjkafk@ wehs lvdlmam,a fjkafka@
fláfhkau lsõfjd;a újdy Èúhla kSri fjkafka tfyu ke;akï lvdlmam,a fjkafka ;uka n,d‍fmdfrd;a;=jk foa ;ukaf. iyldßhf.ka$ iylref.ka fkd,efnk ksid'
újdy fjkak l,ska idudkHfhka fofofkla wfka‍hdakH .e<mSu .ek fyd|g fydh, n,, ;uhs újdy fjkafka' ta;a fyd|gu .e<mqK;a ál ld,hla hoa§ iuyr újdy Ôú; kSri fjkj' talg fya;=j fofokd w;r fkd.e<mSu fkfï' wfka‍hdakH jYfhka tlsfkldg wjYH foa fkd,eìu'
;ukaf.a iyldßhf.ka fkd,efnk foa fjk;a flfkla <Û ;sfnk njla fmfkkak mgka .kak mq¿jka' iuyr úg újdy Ôú; m¿÷ùu mgka.kafk ta jf.a foalska'
wms uq,ska l;dl< úys¿ iy.; fidfydka fldf;a ,shQ lshufka Tyq n,d‍fmdfrd;a;= jk yeufoau tl ldka;djla <Û keye lshk tl fkao woyia fjkafka@
Ôúf;a tfyu ;uhs' ñksiqkaf.a yeá tfyu ;uhs' yefudau tl jf.a fkfï' yefudau <Û ;sfhkafka tlu .;s.=K fkfï' tlu Ôú; rgdjka reÑl;ajhka fkfï' ñksiaiq fjkia'
újdyhlg iylrefjla $ iyldßhla fydhoa§ ishg iShlau .e<fmk" ;uka n,d‍fmdfrd;a;= jk yeufoau ;shk flfklaj yïnfjkafk b;du l,d;=rlska' ta;a wvqu .dfk jeä m%;sY;hlaj;a .e<mSï
;sfhkjd kï" wfka‍hdakH jYfhka fokakd wfmalaId lrkfoa ;rula ÿrg fyda ;sfhkjd kï b;=re yßh idlÉPd lr, tlÛ;djhlg .kak mq¿jka'
wfma wr mqxÑ l;dfj lreKq y;r Èyd wdfh;a n,kakfld' ldka;djlf.ka ieñfhla idudkHfhka n,d‍fmdfrd;a;= fjk foaj,a Æyq¾äka tafl i|yka fjkj'
.DyKshla úÈyg f.a fodr mú;%j ;nd.ekSu" iskd uqiqj" Okd;aul udkisl;ajhlska lghq;= lsÍu" ,sx.sl m%;spdr wdl¾I”h ùu" wjxlj fndre fkdlshd úYajdijka;j Ôj;aùu hkd§ fndfyda .=Kdx. .ek fláfhka i|yka fjkjd' yeu ieñfhlau jf.a ;ukaf. ìß|f.ka n,d‍fmdfrd;a;= fjkafk Bg iudk foaj,a'
we;af;kau fï fndfyda .=Kdx. yeu ldka;djla ;=<u ;shkj' ta;a fndfyda fofkla ta .ek wjOdkh fhduq lr, wjfndaOfhka lghq;= fkdlsÍuhs fndfyda újdy Ôú; wvd,ùug kSri ùug fya;=j'
f.a fodr mú;%j ;shd.kak neßlula kE Wjukdj ;sfhkjd kï' fndre fkdlshd úYajdijka; nj /lf.k bkak neß lula kE' Wjukdjla ;shkjd kï' iskduqiqj" Okd;aul udkisl;ajhlska bkak neß lula kE Wjukdjla ;sfhkjd kï'
fï jf.a újdy Ôú;fha§ ;ukaf.ka bgqúh hq;= j.lSï fldgi fokaku wfka‍hdakHj f;areï wrf.k lghq;= lrkjd kï" fokaku tlsfkldf. udkisl YdÍßl wjYH;d .ek iqyoj l;d ny lrf.k wjfndaOfhka tlsfkld i;=gq lrñka Ôj;a fjkjd kï újdyhla ;j ;j;a Yla;su;a fjkj ñila wvd, fjkak kSri fjkak fya;=jla kE'
“Wjukdj ;sfhkjd kï” lshk jpk ;=ku yßu jeo.;a' neßluhs Wjukdjla ke;s luhs lshkafka folla' fndfyda újdyl whg ;sfhkafka tlsfkld n,d‍fmdfrd;a;= jk udkisl fyda YdÍßl wjYH;djka ,nd §fï fkdyelshdj fkfï' ta wjYH;djka wjfndaOlr.k tajd ,nd §ug Wjukdjla ke;sluhs
.egÆj fj,d ;sfhkafka'
b;ska Tn újdyl flfkla kï fï lreKq lSmh fláfhka u;lfha r|jd.kak'
újdy Ôú; kSri ùug fndfyda úg uq,a fjkafk fofokd w;r fkd.e<mSu fkfï' fofokd w;r fyd| wjfndaOhla ke;s luhs'
újdyh m¿ÿ ùug fya;=j tlsfkld wfmalaId lrk foa tlsfkld ;=< ke;slu fkfï' ta wjYH foa §ug Wkkaÿjla Wjukdjla ke;sluhs'
;ukaf.ka n,d‍fmdfrd;a;= jk foa ;ukaf. iylreg$iyldßhg wdofrka ,nd fokak mshjr .kak ke;akï weh$Tyq fjk;a flfkla fj;ska ta wjYH;dj ,nd .ekSug fm<fUkak neßlula keye'
Tn ldreKsl jpkhla wdorfhka lshkafka ke;akï weh$Tyq fjk flfklaf.ka ta ldreKsl nj fidhd hkak mq¿jka' fkd,efnk fldhs foa;a ,nd.kak ys; fjkialr.kafk ta úÈyghs'
Tn újdy jqfKa fokakg fokak .e<fmk ksidfk' mS%;su;a hq. Èúhlg ta fyd|gu we;s' ta;a wfka‍hdakHj fokaku tlsfkldf. Wjukdjka .ek lemùfuka l%shd lrkak'
t;fldg wrjf.a iyldßhka $ iylrejka y;r fofkla wjYH fjkafka kE' ta jf.a tla tlaflkdg fydfrka lSm fofkla fj; <xfjkak wjYH fjkafka kE' ta jf.a fidfydka fld;a ks¾udK ,shkak fjkafka kE'

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